Tag: sosiaaliset taidot
  • Sosiaalinen taidottomuus

    lokakuu 23rd, 2014

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    Last time I went to the meeting of metropolitan area comic bloggers, Hanna-Pirita invited me to visit her place, since I live almost in the neighbour.

    ”And this is the person, whose blog I have read before my ”career” even started!
    This is like Alice Cooper asking one to hang out!

    I felt like tossing myself on the floor to bow and chant I am not worthy.”

    I promised to write some email, so we can arrange a meeting.

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    ”Hmm.”

    Then I realized a problem;
    last time I have officially visited anyone was a looooong time ago.

    At friends’ places, I just invade.
    I slouch around, read their magazines and ask questions about stuff, etc.
    At parties I don’t behave that way, though.

    ”Does this mag has a quiz?”

    ”Yeah.”

    ”Can I fill it, or should I help with cooking?”

    ”Bell peppers could be cut.”

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    So, I guess I got a little anxious.

    *Thinking*: ”What am I gonna write? Do I need to bring a present? I would not want to come by, swinging two empty hands.
    I wonder if it’s a problem that I don’t drink coffee or even tea? What if I make a mess? What if I make a fool of myself?”

    The problem is not in Hanna-Pirita, or anyone else for that matter. My own social skills just happen to be, on scale 1-10, -25 and dropping.

    ”Go away, Osku.
    I am sweeping my problems under the rug.”

    No worries, I am trying to get my act together some time soon!